Written by Jen on 2024-12-25
Christmas Day Shenanigans
So ExH decided Christmas Day was the day I could move my things. So he pulled several boxes out of the garage onto the driveway. As I started loading boxes, he decided to call the police because I was stealing HIS things. He kept telling me that the judge gave him all of these things
Written by Jen on 2024-12-18
The new normal
So we are into a new normal. A normal where things just seem to be odd when it comes to custody decision making. For 3 years, nearly 4 ExH has fought me on every single decision for my DD2. From whether she should continue to be vaccinated to whether she should have dental cleanings done
Written by Jen on 2024-12-08
Coming back and moving forward
I asked my daughter today if, when she turned 18, she would want to read about my story and my journey through divorce and beyond. She told me yes. So this blog will be an attempt to digest my story so that my kids have an accounting of what happened from my perspective. I’m hoping
Written by Jen on 2024-12-05
Thinking about moving forward is different than doing
When thinking about moving forward it is messier than it seems. It is not a linear journey. It is a journey that is more curves and moving around obstacles. Sometimes those obstacles are mountains that we create for ourselves. The solution then becomes to get out of our own way. I’ve realized through my moving