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Written by on 2025-01-19

Thinking about the sacred

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Healing, like anything in life is not a straight line journey. It’s a path that takes unexpected turns and is very much a journey that is not always predictable. I’ve struggled with that unpredictable nature throughout the past few years as I’ve navigated the journey that I find myself on. It’s been a path of

Written by on 2025-01-12

Finding Peace when the world doesn’t have it

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This past week I’ve had a lot of time to reflect on peace. What it is and how to obtain it. I honestly do not know how I define peace for myself. I’ve come to realize that I have never really defined what that is for me or what that might look like. Or even

Written by on 2025-01-04

Responding and communicating

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Communication is an interesting thing. I’ve had cause to ask what exactly is it this past week. I sent my ex a message that said the online custody calendar we use was not in compliance with the orders we received from the court. He sent me back a message telling me I was making unilateral

Written by on 2025-01-01

Happy New Year maybe

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I was thinking that this year I would finally be able to move forward. In the grand scheme of things I figured the majority of things were finished. Buuuuuutttt that was simply a dream. Apparently there is no end to this reality. I found out that my exH took my DD2 out of state without

Written by on 2022-03-01

tired and helpless

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 I’m so tired.  Tired of the games EH is playing, tired of holding my 10 year old, I as she sobs because EH is refusing to allow her baby sister to come for her birthday or contact her at all, tired of not having my things, just tired of this whole thing. I’m convinced that

Written by on 2022-02-25

Resources

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 These are the resources that are helping define my journey.  They are publicly available and will hopefully help others with their own journeys. This article has helped define some of my health struggles.  Finally having some answers helps, now just onward to hopefully fixing those issues. Iron deficiency and why it matters

Written by on 2022-02-16

Gaming addictions and child safety

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  Here is yet another example of how EH refuses to co-parent with me.  It took me a little while to process the emotions that these events generated in me last week.  I wanted to be as rational as I could be when I sent this. Every once in a while the school will have a no-school

Written by on 2022-02-02

What am I writing and Why

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2022 is a year of beginnings.  I’m starting this blog in an attempt to digest and understand the adventures my life has taken in the last year.  Besides my divorce, I’ve had health challenges, I have fear for my daughter’s safety and I’m trying to navigate co-parenting with someone who is more interested in obstructing