Tag: system failure

Written by on 2022-04-23

TRIGGER WARNING: Systems being used as a mechanism for abuse

Divorce Article

 My ExH.  He likes control.  He wants to punish me, or at least that’s how it appears as a recipient of his games.   Unfortunately, he was able to convince a judge to grant him a protection order (or a restraining order) against me in retaliation for me reporting to the police that he raped

Written by on 2022-03-30

Can the police be used as a harassment device?

Divorce Article

 Can the police be used to harass someone?  That is the question I find myself asking.  I received a call from a detective this morning telling me that my lovely EH reported that I violated his protection order.  When I asked how, the poor detective was very unclear as to how the examples given actually

Written by on 2022-02-02

What am I writing and Why

General Article

2022 is a year of beginnings.  I’m starting this blog in an attempt to digest and understand the adventures my life has taken in the last year.  Besides my divorce, I’ve had health challenges, I have fear for my daughter’s safety and I’m trying to navigate co-parenting with someone who is more interested in obstructing