Tag: divorce

Written by on 2022-03-22

Count the ways to avoid financial obligations

Divorce Article

 Here’s the latest in this misadventure. EH is doing everything possible to not fulfill the financial obligations as listed in the temporary orders (child support and a loan payment).  The court was very clear, he needed to pay both these items, and the court described how those were to be paid.  There is no ambiguity. 

Written by on 2022-03-15

Parenting schedule misadventure

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 Had some interesting developments that began about 10 days ago.  I notified my EH that there would be a change in the parenting schedule due to spring break.  Not a big deal, or so I thought.  I should have known better.   Spring Break for the children began the week of 3/7.  That was his time

Written by on 2022-03-01

tired and helpless

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 I’m so tired.  Tired of the games EH is playing, tired of holding my 10 year old, I as she sobs because EH is refusing to allow her baby sister to come for her birthday or contact her at all, tired of not having my things, just tired of this whole thing. I’m convinced that

Written by on 2022-02-25

Co-parenting and cooperation mis adventures Feb

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It’s me again talking about EH and his unwillingness to co-parent.  Two events have occurred in the last month that will illustrate this pattern.  If you don’t want to read through the events, I’ve summarized them with bullet points here: These two events listed after this summary continue EH’s pattern of control to the detriment of D2’s well-being. ·               

Written by on 2022-02-16

Gaming addictions and child safety

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  Here is yet another example of how EH refuses to co-parent with me.  It took me a little while to process the emotions that these events generated in me last week.  I wanted to be as rational as I could be when I sent this. Every once in a while the school will have a no-school

Written by on 2022-02-02

What am I writing and Why

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2022 is a year of beginnings.  I’m starting this blog in an attempt to digest and understand the adventures my life has taken in the last year.  Besides my divorce, I’ve had health challenges, I have fear for my daughter’s safety and I’m trying to navigate co-parenting with someone who is more interested in obstructing